(on of) my best frined's wedding

really happy for one of my friends.she has found a life partner.

love marriage it is.have had long discussions with her regarding love v/s arranged  marriage (ok i was the audience most of the time but still)
n its not just a love marriage but also a inter-cast one the girl is hindu n the boy roman catholic. they will have marriage ceremony both in christian and hindu rites. another first for any of my friends.

Will pray to God for everything to go as plan.

two love stories..

today i came to know about the final episode of two love stories, the male protagonists being my friends in both the cases.

both relationships started in pg college one story 5 year old and the other 3. both stories had a seasoned approach. 

the 5 year old had a happy ending, marriage due early next year. 

the 3 year old one ending in the protagonists bidding bidding adieu to each other. one of the families did not agree and the relationship had to be ended. 

intezaar aur sahi...

was reminded of this song by gulzar, performed by jagjit singh


Meri ankhon ke sabhi khwab pyase hain abhi
Pyay ki koi ghata ghir ke aayegi kabhi
Intezaar aur sahi, intezar aur sahi.......

Paas rehkar bhi koi dil se kyun duur lage
Main bhi majboor sa hoon
who bhi majboor lage
apna gham keh na sakun meri uljhan hai yahi
intezar aur sahi intezar aur sahi......

yeh udasi yeh thakan band kamre ki ghutan
dil me kya hone laga dard hai yak ke chubhan
aaj bhi mujhse kahe aag seene me dabi
intezar aur sahi intezar aur sahi.........